Island Hospice & Healthcare

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Island Hospice & Healthcare
Island Hospice & Healthcare
Island Hospice & Healthcare
Island Hospice & Healthcare
Island Hospice & Healthcare
Island Hospice & Healthcare
Island Hospice & Healthcare
Island Hospice & Healthcare
Island Hospice & Healthcare
Island Hospice & Healthcare
Island Hospice & Healthcare
Island Hospice & Healthcare
Island Hospice & Healthcare
Island Hospice & Healthcare
Island Hospice & Healthcare
Island Hospice & Healthcare
Island Hospice & Healthcare
Island Hospice & Healthcare

Project Report | Apr 19, 2021
MY UNEXPECTED JOURNEY WITH CANCER

By Lovemore Mupaza | Monitoring, Evaluation and Research Officer

Island Hospice and Healthcare Zimbabwe (Island) is an organisation that was established in 1979. Island’s main mandate is to provide palliative care and bereavement service to patients and clients who need our services in Zimbabwe. As Island we  emphasise on quality of care to our patients and their families and it is from our day to day interaction with patients and clients that the following story of change was picked from, of one of our beneficiary.

 

It was during the lockdown, on the 23rd of November 2020 when I took my Dad to hospital after he had suffered another stroke. The doctors ordered a series of tests which included a chest CT Scan as they suspected that he had Cancer. I was not concerned at all as my Dad had had Pulmonary Embolism the year before and had pulled through. The CT scan results confirmed that he had cancer tumours in his lung. A second CT scan of the abdomen showed a tumour in the liver of 12cm diameter and that the ones in the lungs were growing. It was presumed that the tumours were secondary to Colo-rectal Cancer.

On discharge, my Dad could not eat much, and he started to lose weight. The Oncologist that we saw confirmed that the Cancer was now in Stage 4 and that he would not benefit from surgery. She advised us to contact Island Hospice and Healthcare for palliative care. I was not ready for this and we therefore sought a second opinion with another doctor who ran some more tests and concluded that he would try chemotherapy once dad was a little stronger.

In the meantime, we did contact Island and their team pf nurses, social worker and doctor attended to my dad, my mum and me. They always called or physically came in to see how we were doing and by this time my dad was deteriorating so fast it was as if the cancer was literally starting to eat him and due to our fear of losing him, we often called an ambulance to take him to the hospital casualty department. At night l would get up to turn him and to attend to his needs therefore l was not getting much sleep. He, however, never complained and always said “thank you”.

The Island team tried to explain to us that my Dad was in his last stages of life, but we did not want to hear that and were not ready to accept it. They were however patient and kept trying to get through to us.

 

I remember the Friday the 5th of February 2021, we went to the Island offices where they

sat us down for counselling, by this time, my Dad was on oxygen continuously and we were not getting sleep at all. On this day, I must say, we finally listened to what they had been trying to help us understand.

 

What l took with me on that day-

  • We need to remember that Dad loves us all.
  • That he may have accepted that he is dying and may not be happy with the frequent trips we were making to the local casualty with him and that we should allow him to make decisions about his care.
  • He may have worries and concerns that he was not able to share with us because we were not accepting that he is dying.
  • We need to spend as much time as possible with him, hold his hand and reminisce on the good memories.
  • That it was ok to ask for help from other people.

From that day things changed for the better in terms of us coping as a family and accept the condition of my father.

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Island Hospice and Healthcare

Location: Harare - Zimbabwe
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Twitter: @Island Hospice Zim
Project Leader:
Elias Masendu
Harare , Zimbabwe
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