By Jessica Baron | Executive Director
Dear Friend,
If you know kindergarteners, first graders or second graders, you already know that teasing, cheating, bullying, lying, excluding and name calling produce a gnarly aftermath- tattling! Primary teachers need a constructive song to cure the need to tattle. (They also need songs to cure all those other troubles, too, hence this project!)
The social emotional awareness and refined social skills children need to learn to navigate at school take lots of thinking, self control and practice to master. But music can speed the process along. It took one heroic, dedicated, resolute and time-crunched primary teacher to solve the tattling problem.
San Diego Unified teacher Mrs. Teresa came up with a brillant solution. She wrote a song for her students to sing and memorize that contains four goof-proof strategies for solving social problems. She brought that song to my after school PD at Jefferson Elementary in North Park one day and played it for the group. Her colleagues and I went nuts!
This song is so catchy. She borrowed the public domain melody from the traditional Gold Rush song, "Clementine," Can't go wrong repurposing that song as the original lyrics are about a girl with no shoes who drowns. Not exactly cheery stuff. So many old songs are dark and need a rewrite because they were written to cope with hardship (think the Black Plague).
I asked Ms. Teresa if she realized she had written a hit and she humbly replied, "Well I thought it seemed pretty good..." Truthfully, teachers have a true knack for songwriting. But Ms. Teresa is a phenom. So the collection of songs for this book keeps growing.
I hope you will indulge me for a moment and hum along to "Clementine" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ebyiyntVQNM. Next sing it again using Ms, Teresa's phenomenal lyrics, below. (These are now copyrighted by the way). The next time you need to give sage advice to a young person who is on the receiving end of hurtful words, you;ll have her song to fall back in.
We are not supposed to use full names in our GlobalGiving reports but for copyright purposes, you need hers.
There Are Four Things
Composed by Teresa Adams (c) 2019
There are four things, there are four things, there are four things I can do.
When somebody is bothering me, there are four things I can do.
I can talk it out, I can walk away, I’ll ignore the thing they do.
When all else fails, find a grown up or a friend to help me through!
I hope this new GITC song brings a smile to your face and more importantly a new tool to help little ones heal their hearts when their friends act like, well...little kids. Thanks for sharing my delight. And if you share Teresa's song, please be sure to give her credit where credit is due. Thanks.
Yours for the children,
Jess
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By Jess Baron | Executive Director
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