By Iain Guest | Project leader
We contacted you earlier this year with the news that Bobbi, a well-known American quilter and AP Board member, was heading to Bardiya in western Nepal to work with women who lost family-members during the conflict (1996-2006). You are one of 186 friends who have donated to these women since we launched our first appeal on their behalf in 2015. So let’s begin with a huge thanks!
In this email we report back on Bobbi’s recent visit to Nepal. This was a first for AP. As you may know, we ask American quilters to assemble advocacy quilts from embroidery made by our partners in the Global South. We then exhibit the quilts at events in the US to promote the partner.
But this was the first time we have asked one of our quilting friends to visit a partner in the South and work side by side with the artists.
Bobbi was perfect for the job. She was going through a rough patch and looking for a worthwhile way to use her talents. In addition, Bobbi knows AP and advocacy quilting after assembling several Tiger quilts for the Bardiya cooperative (named after the tigers that live in the Bardiya National Park).
But even this did not prepare Bobbi for a hectic two weeks. She began in Kathmandu by teaming up with Sarita, the inspiring leader of the Bardiya cooperative, and shopping for material. Accompanied by Iain from AP and Prabal, our project coordinator in Nepal, Bobbi then headed off on a 17-hour bus trip to Bardiya and ten days of creative training. The women had already produced the squares, describing the arrest of their relatives in grim detail. Bobbi helped to turn the squares into something that they could cherish.
This produced deep friendships and plenty of reflection. The women are still deeply affected by the loss of their relatives and we have tried to capture this in profiles. Older cooperative members like Belmati, who lost a son and two daughters in law, rarely smile. Even the younger women like Kancham and Kushma, who were too young to really remember their lost relatives see the effect on their mothers every day. Many of the families were driven into poverty by the loss of their breadwinners.
The Bardiya training lifted their spirits and produced more laughter than tears. The artists were amazed that Bobbi could show such energy at the age of 71, and she was bowled over by their talent and affection for each other. By the end of the week they had finished one striking quilt, which will stay in Nepal and be exhibited on August 30 (International Day of the Disappeared). A second quilt will be housed at AP in Washington and exhibited in the US. There were smiles and hugs all round before Bobbi and Prabal set off on their return trip to Kathmandu.
Bobbi performed a second service for the Bardiya cooperative by helping Sarita to design Tiger bags for western consumers. AP has commissioned 100 bags and will let you know when they come on the market!
So much good came out of Bobbi’s trip that it’s hard to pinpoint anything in particular. Our Nepali partner NEFAD (The Network of Families of the Disappeared) plans to use the quilt, and our new web pages, to argue that those responsible for the disappearances should be brought to justice. Sarita and her cooperative hope to earn money from selling tiger bags. We at AP hope that Bobbi’s trip will inspire more American quilters to travel south and provide technical assistance with a difference!
But as we suggest in our profile of Bobbi, the greatest impact may be personal. The Bardiya women have a new friend and know that Americans want to help - and this is is huge. As for Bobbi, she has a sense of achievement and a deeper understanding of the resilience of women - in Nepal and the US.
We will report back to you on the Tiger bags. Thank you for making it all happen!
Iain and the AP team
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By Iain Guest | Project leader
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