By Kristin Lietz | Program Director
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Aided joined our program a little over seven years ago when she left her home village in the Chimalapas cloud forest and came to Juchitan to study high school. She is the oldest of two daughters. Her father is a farmer, and her mother makes and sells tortillas and other foodstuffs from their home. This June Aided will finish her course work for her degree Engineering in Renewable Energy.
It is not easy to leave home to study for so many years, and not easy to live in a new city. Aided is a very loving and kind young woman but she confided to us that she has not been able to make many friends here in town because her region of the state is considered by those in here in town to be violent and backwards, and that stigma has impeded making many friends outside our program. In addition, these past several years have been very difficult for Aided, during the years of the pandemic she lost two aunts and an uncle, and her family had to leave their home go to her mother’s home village to take care of her grandfather. Unfortunately the village where she is living has seen violence recently and when she is there she feels unsafe and the family does not leave the home much.
Aided will not be leaving the program in June. She has asked to remain an additional semester because part of her national licensure program is a six-month unpaid practicum. She is currently looking for a business to host her practicum. As our region is a hub of wind energy there are multiple places to look at, as well as the national electric company that has a regional office locally. Yet that six-month deadline looms in her mind.
Now we are working with her in the next step in her life, leaving Centro de Compartimiento, the home she has lived in for the past seven years, and starting to work and live on her own. The expectations of family are heavy. Her cousin, the first person in her family to have a college degree sat her down several weeks ago and told her that now that she is graduating, she needs to find a job and start supporting her family. Her cousin said that in her mind she should divide her pay into four parts, one for housing, one for food and other basic needs, one for her mother and one to put her younger sister through school.
In the minds of many families in the region the only reason a woman should be out of her parents’ home before marriage is to send money back home. So, we are now having a lot of conversations with her as she voices her fears and dreams about the future. She wants to find a job locally in the wind farms and live in the region. We are working with her on the conversations she will need to have with her family about what they feel are her obligations to them and especially her younger sister. The work she is doing is planning the conversations, working out her points, deciding with whom and when it is best to talk, all this while in finals and hunting for a practicum position. It is hard for all here to think that by the end of the year Aided will not long be with us as a student.
Aided has expressed many times her gratitude for the staff at Centro de Compartimiento, and the programs that we have that have given her the skills to look at her life and family in new ways and plan well for the next steps in her life. She said that college always seemed like an end goal, but now it is almost accomplished, and she needs to look at what comes next. With your support for our programs Aided is on the brink of her dream of finishing college and is now dreaming about her future. We thank you for your support of Aided and other young women like her, whom without your support would not be able to continue their education. We hope that you can continue to support our programs with your generous donations and help more young women like Aided to reach for their dreams.
By Adela Toledo Luis | General Director
By Kristin Lietz | Progam Director
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