Holistic Care for 450 HIV Positive Thai Families

My name is Care and I am 22 years old. I live in Bangkok and just finished university. But this story starts 22 years before today. Back then no one expected me to finish university. They didn't thought I would be able to go to school at all. I was living with my old grandmother who was too old and sick to take care of me. But then Siam-Care showed up and my life changed drastically.

July 1992, Mukdahan
I was born in the northeast Thailand, not to far from Mukdahan, a medium-sized city, in the province Isaan. Isaan is considered one of the most poor areas in Thailand. Most people are farmers and grow rice or sugarcanes. Just like my parents. They were both Hiv-positive, already before I was born. I was my parent's first child and also the last one. My mother would have loved to have more children but her physical situation didn't allow her.

May 1995, Mukdahan
After my birth my mother's body got weaker and weaker. When I was only 3 years old, she died. I was to young to understand what was going on. I don't really remember what my mother looked like, to be honest. Thankfully I still have some pictures of me and my mother. After my mother died, my father took me to Bangkok, because there he would have a better chance to find a job. He ended up working as a construction worker, for about 12 hours a day. He made around 250 baht a day (8 USD).

November 1997, Bangkok
The health situation of my father was not improving. Despite the fact that he used medication to suppress his HIV infection, he became weaker. In the end of 1997 he died in Bangkok. I was only 5 years old but already an orphan. I moved back to Mukdahan to live with my grandmother. She was almost 80 and too old to work. Hence I wasn't able to go to school, because how would we ever be able to pay for the uniform and travel costs, to name just a few expences.

January 1998, Mukdahan
One of our neighbours brought us in conact with Siam-Care, a NGO that was working with Hiv-infected people. I'm not infected myself but that didn't matter for Siam-Care. After they heard my story Siam-Care found someone in Europe who wanted to support me. I was able to go to school and that made me so happy. I still remember the first day I went to school. I was so proud to wear my uniform. There was someone I didn't know who though I was precious enough to support. That made me feel so special.

May 2014, Bangkok
After finishing primary and high school I moved to Bangkok again to study at university. My grandmother doesn't live anymore, but because of Siam-Care's support I was able to study. I payed for my own food because I had a parttime job in a Thai restaurant. Now that I've finished my study to become a teacher, I can start working after the summer holiday. I am so proud that I can take care of myself now. Ofcource I miss my parents but atleast I know that my future is wide open. I can work, take care of myself and start a family one day. Thankfully my children won't need the support of Siam-Care, but I am so thankfull that Siam-Care was there for me!

Care didn't allow us to use her real name and picture.

With the help of Global Giving, Siam-Care helps 200 children to study, who would not have been able to go to school without financial support. Lam is one of them, this is her story.

My name is Lam (not her real name) and I am 10 years old. I live in Nakhon Pathom, a city close to Bangkok. I am HIV-infected and I live with my grandparents. My mother died three months after I was born. My father left my mother before I was born and I have never seen him or heard from him.

 “I was born in 2008 in Korat, the second biggest city of Thailand. My mother was HIV-infected and didn’t use any medication, so I was born with the infection as well. After my mother died, not long after I was born, I moved in with my grandparents of my mother’s side, who live in Nakhon Pathom. They are farmers and grow rice or sugarcanes, depending on the season. They are not infected, but due to their high age, 72 and 77, it is hard for them to work and make enough money for us to survive. We have always struggles to make ends meet and until I was 6 years old, I was not able to go to school because my family had not enough money.”

A stranger comes to help
“Four years ago, the hospital told me about Siam-Care. They told me there was an organization which helps children like me to go to school. I was really surprised and could not believe they would be willing to help me. Why would they? They didn’t even know me. A couple weeks later, three people visited me: two Thai women and one foreigner. They asked me and my grandparents many questions and told my grandparents it was important for their granddaughter, so me, to go to school. They told me somebody from Europe wanted to pay for my school. I could not believe what I had just heard. Why would a stranger do this for me?”

First day at school
“With the financial support of Siam-Care, I was able to buy a school uniform, books and some other necessities. I still remember very well the first day I went to school. I was so proud and happy that I was able study and to learn how to read and write. Even though it is four years ago, I still remember that first day very well. Now, in 2016, I still go to school and made many new friends. My favorite subject is music. I really like to sing and dance. I still feel very proud that Siam-Care choose me to study. I will never forget what they have done for me.”

Make my mother proud
“Like I said, I was very young when my mother died. I was too young to understand what was going on. I don't remember what my mother looked like, obviously. I still have pictures of me and my mother though. I know she loved me very much. I know she would have liked to have more children. It may sound weird because she is not here anymore but I want to make her proud by finishing my study. I want to make her proud by getting a good job, so I can take care of my grandparents. With the help of Siam-Care I think I can finish my study. Something I didn’t think a couple years ago.”

Thank you Global Giving
This is just one of the stories of one of the children Siam-Care enables to study. Because of the help of people like you, who give through Global Giving, we can keep children in school. Thank you very much for allowing us to give future to children like Lam!