By Wendy Whiting Blome & Matthew Dayton-Welch | Project Leaders
Sometimes the strength of people to persevere in the face of trauma and struggles is awe-inspiring. The staff at the Spafford Children's Center are frequently amazed by the mothers and fathers of the children who receive services at the Center. Their lives are not easy living under occupation and trying to protect their families and livelihoods.
Oma is a 53-year-old Jerusalemite woman who is married with children and grandchildren. She has a 32-year-old son who has intellectual and motor delays. He was the first-born child and her husband’s family blamed her for the challenges the child faced. At times Oma experienced mistreatment at the hands of her husband and his family. Two more children were born in quick succession and Oma became overwhelmed with the responsibility for her son and his siblings.
Over time she became isolated in the family home and rarely risked the questions that came when she and her oldest son ventured out. Now all of her children are grown and the younger two have families of their own. Oma had always envisioned herself as a nurse helping others and finding joy and satisfaction in the work.
Oma began taking a computer course at the SCC to learn new skills that would help her in school. Soon the social worker at SCC suggested that Oma join the Women’s Groups where she found support and understanding. She attended all the meetings and gradually her view changed from pessimism and sadness to hope and optimism. Her self-confidence improved and she became able to face her community and her family. Now she takes her eldest son with her during her visits to family or friends and he accompanies her to SCC when she attends meetings.
Oma is enrolled in college and determined to complete her practical nursing degree. Despite her husband’s attempts to make her reconsider her decisions, she is pursuing her dream. She tells the staff at SCC that she is applying the knowledge and skills from the women’s course to improve her relationship with her husband and to maintain family balance. Her husband has acknowledged that he brings home the stress he experiences everyday as a laborer in an Israeli company. He now recognizes the strength his wife has shown by managing the home and their eldest son while pursuing a career.
This is just one story from the Spafford Children's Center. It is not remarkable in that there are many similar stories, but extraordinary in the life of Oma and her family. Her life was positively changed, her adult son is seeing more of the community, and she and her husband are communicating more openly.
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Matthew and Wendy
The Rev. Canon Matthew Dayton-Welch, ChairandWendy Whiting Blome, PhD, Secretary/TreasurerAmerican Friends of the Spafford Children's CenterBy Wendy Whiting Blome, PhD | Project Leader
By Matthew Dayton-Welch and Wendy Whiting Blome | Project Leaders
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