By Amy Stokes | CEO
Tsepo was born in the rural town of Matatiele in the Eastern Cape. In 1997, when he was only 4 years old, Tsepo moved to Johannesburg to live with his grandmother who was a domestic worker. However, when Tsepo’s grandmother had to stop working and could no longer afford to take care of him, Tsepo was forced to move to Nkosi’s Haven – a children’s home. There, Tsepo was desperate to find a family to replace the one he just lost and worked hard to fit in with his peers. Unfortunately, he fell in with the wrong crowd and this meant embracing the gangster life of drugs, alcohol, and violence.
Sadly, Tsepo’s story is not an uncommon one among South African teens. Youth violence has been a normal occurrence in South Africa for decades. Gangs target children for recruitment because the children are eager to prove themselves and are not subject to harsh punishments when caught.
But Tsepo's story does take a turn for the best!
Eventually, Nkosi’s Haven introduced Tsepo to Infinite family and he matched with a mentor in 2006. Through his mentor, he learned about the importance of goal setting and how to make large projects less daunting by breaking them up into smaller tasks. Tsepo and his mentor worked hard to focus on the positive things and people in his life instead of his daily struggles. He looked up to his mentor as the older brother and family he didn’t have growing up. He described his time with Infinite Family as exciting and said,
“To know there were people from across the globe that wanted to visit with us through these weekly video sessions at the computer lab…that they cared enough to want to talk with us and get to know us…that made me feel important.”
Tsepo believes that he might have given up on his goals if it had not been for the support and guidance of Infinite Family. He is proud to say that he has already achieved one of his goals – passing his matriculation certification exam and with high marks as well! He also gained admission to Wits University, but cannot attend this year because of financial challenges. However, he isn’t going to let that get in his way and is working diligently to secure a scholarship and working part-time jobs. In fact, we believe so much in Tsepo, he is currently working part time for Infinite Family! We know that sometimes, all it takes is for someone to believe in them for South African teens to start becoming resilient, resourceful, and self-reliant.
We want to thank our donors and mentors everywhere for your support that make it possible for successes like Tsepo’s to exist. Tsepo’s relationship with his mentor shows that you don’t need to be in the same room to make a difference in the lives of South African teens.
Thank you!
By Amy Stokes | CEO
By Amy Conrad Stokes | Founder and CEO
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