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A mother's desperation to Empowerment, A journey with BEF

Family Profile

Beneficiary:
A 30-year-old single mother

Children:
• Daughter (14 years, Class VIII)
• Daughter (11 years, Class VI)

School:
Local Government Secondary School, Tanahun

A Childhood Marked by Poverty

Born into a marginalized indigenous (Adivasi/Janajati) Kumal family in rural Tanahun, she grew up as one of eleven siblings in a household struggling to survive. Her parents worked as farmers and daily wage laborers, but their income was never enough to meet basic needs.

Education was a luxury the family could not afford. Like her siblings, she had to leave school early and begin working. From a young age, she learned that survival came before dreams.

Marriage, Discrimination, and Isolation

At just 15, she entered a love marriage that crossed caste boundaries. What began with hope quickly turned into hardship.

Her husband’s family never accepted her due to her background. She faced daily discrimination, social exclusion, and emotional isolation. Under pressure and economic stress, her husband developed alcohol and substance dependency, gradually withdrawing from family responsibilities.

Despite everything, she continued to work and support the family, even taking loans in hopes of creating better opportunities. But the situation only worsened.

A Life-Altering Tragedy

In 2024, following ongoing distress and mental health struggles, her husband died by suicide.

She discovered him at home.

In a single moment, she lost her partner and the fragile stability she had been holding together.

Widowhood and Further Hardship

Instead of support, she faced further rejection from her in-laws, even during mourning rituals. She was isolated, blamed, and eventually left with only a small portion of the house.

Now alone, she carried the full responsibility of raising two daughters while enduring ongoing social stigma and economic hardship.

Struggling to Survive

Today, she works as a construction laborer, carrying heavy loads for long hours, earning just €3–4 per day. It is barely enough to survive.

Women in such conditions face extreme risks, including exploitation and trafficking. Without support, escaping poverty becomes nearly impossible.

Support and a New Beginning

In June 2025, Bahini Educare Foundation welcomed this family into the Educare Program.

Support includes:
• Education for both daughters
• Food, clothing, and hygiene support
• Access to healthcare
• Emotional counseling
• Livelihood and empowerment support

For the first time, the family began to feel safe and supported.

The daughters returned to school with confidence. Slowly, hope replaced fear.

A Mother’s Strength

Despite everything, her focus remains clear: to give her daughters a better future.

In her words:

“I never imagined life would turn out this way. But my daughters must not go through what I did. That is what keeps me going.”

Why This Story Matters

Her story reflects the reality of many women in rural Nepal, where poverty, caste-based discrimination, and gender inequality intersect.

Without intervention, these cycles continue for generations.

With the right support, they can be broken.

Bahini Educare Foundation works alongside families like hers to restore dignity, stability, and independence — step by step.

Be Part of the Change

Your support helps families move from crisis to confidence, from exclusion to belonging.

Together, we can ensure that no woman or child is left to struggle alone.

It’s simple. It’s simply BEF.

Our success story "Survival to Self Reliance: A mother's journey of Empwerment"

Our support for this family began in 2016 and formally concluded in 2025.

When Bahini Educare Foundation first met this mother in 2016, she was a single parent living at the very edge of survival. Exhausted by loss, poverty, and the responsibility of raising five children alone, her days were consumed by worry about food, shelter, and her children’s future.

Today, in 2025, she stands in a completely different place. She is confident, financially stable, and no longer dependent on external support. Her journey reflects exactly what the EduCare Family Program set out to achieve: not long-term aid, but dignity, strength, inclusion, and self-reliance.

Family Profile (Names replaced for privacy reasons)

Applicant:
Mother (55 years)

Beneficiaries:
• Elder Daughter (29 years, married)
• Second Daughter (27 years, married)
• Son (25 years, carpenter)
• Younger Daughter (20 years, Grade 12 completed, employed)
• Youngest Daughter (19 years, Grade 12 completed, employed)

Address:
Lekhnath–14, Kaski

A Childhood Shaped by Poverty

The mother was born in Lekhnath, Kaski, into a landless, low-caste family with eight children. Her parents survived on daily wage labour, working long hours yet never earning enough. Hunger and insecurity were constant companions.

In Nepal, land often determines dignity and opportunity. For generations, families from lower castes were denied land ownership. While laws have changed, illiteracy, poverty, and limited access to decent work still make land ownership out of reach for most. This was the reality she grew up in.

As the eldest among five daughters and three sons, responsibility came early. School was never an option. She remained illiterate, spending her childhood doing household and farm work. At sixteen, she was married through an arranged marriage, beginning a life marked by early motherhood and relentless labour.

She later became the mother of five children. Life was hard, but the family survived day by day.

When Illness Changed Everything

Her husband worked as a daily wage labourer. His income barely sustained the household, but it was enough to get by until serious kidney disease struck. Medical expenses quickly drained every saving. The family borrowed, pleaded, and sought help wherever possible.

Unable to afford ongoing dialysis, her husband passed away at a young age.

Suddenly, she was alone with five dependent children, no land, no savings, and no secure income. Community members helped her build a small one-room shed on shared land. All six lived there, facing chronic food shortages and uncertainty.

The pressure was immense. The two elder daughters were married early. Her teenage son left school to train as a carpenter so he could earn. The younger daughters struggled to continue their education.

Recognizing the family’s extreme vulnerability, community elders referred her to Bahini Educare Foundation through a local network partner.

BEF Steps In: Support with Purpose

After careful assessment and multiple home visits, BEF welcomed the family into the EduCare Family Program. Our approach focused on immediate relief paired with long-term planning.

Support included:
• Education support for the children
• Staple food and access to nutritious meals
• Clothing and hygiene materials
• Health insurance and support for the mother’s hand surgery
• Guidance to open a bank account and build savings
• Counselling for daughters to continue education and delay early marriage
• Support for younger daughters to transition into decent employment after Grade 12

The mother worked tirelessly. With guidance and basic financial-literacy support, the family learned to save consistently. Over time, their situation improved. Through collective effort, they moved from a single-room shed into a three-room home, a powerful symbol of stability they once believed was impossible.

Where She Stands Today

In 2025, her life tells a story of real transformation.

• Two elder daughters are married and settled with families of their own
• Her son earns a steady income as a trained carpenter
• The two youngest daughters have completed Grade 12 and are now employed in hotels in Lakeside, each earning NPR 15,000 per month
• The family is closely connected, with all children contributing to household expenses and security

With consistent support and her own determination, the family moved from exclusion and poverty to stability, dignity, and inclusion.

A Confident Exit, A True Success

Once the family reached self-sufficiency, BEF formally concluded its support in 2025. This transition was planned and communicated over six months, ensuring the family felt prepared and secure.

This is not an ending. It is a milestone.

Her journey shows what becomes possible when comprehensive support is combined with trust, patience, and belief in a woman’s strength. She rebuilt her life with confidence and dignity.

She is no longer a beneficiary.
She is a success story.

Why This Story Matters

This journey reminds us that cycles of poverty can be broken. With the right support, families can move from survival to stability, and then to independence.

In 2025 alone, six EduCare Families reached sustainability, each in their own way and at their own pace. As these families stepped forward independently, six new families were welcomed into the program, beginning their own journeys toward security and self-reliance.

This is the work we continue to do.
Thank you for walking alongside us.

It’s simple.
It’s simply BEF.